{"id":5345,"date":"2025-06-01T11:02:37","date_gmt":"2025-06-01T03:02:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kllcdn.test-plesk.evischool.com\/?p=5345"},"modified":"2024-08-12T10:59:18","modified_gmt":"2024-08-12T02:59:18","slug":"we-should-be-grateful-to-others-for-being-willing-to-offer-help","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kllck.edu.hk\/kllcdn\/we-should-be-grateful-to-others-for-being-willing-to-offer-help\/","title":{"rendered":"We should be grateful to others for being willing to \u2018offer help\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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Written by: Dr. Cheung Kit<\/p>

In this era, parents\u2019 protection of their children surpasses that of any previous generation. This may be due to the decrease in the number of children and the improvement in living standards, leading to parents spending more time and providing more comprehensive care for their children. Under such (possibly excessive) protection, children often become very self-centered and disregard the importance of others. From the parents\u2019 perspective, they are inevitably biased and more tolerant of their own children. When faced with their children\u2019s inappropriate behavior, parents tend to make excuses for them. This common human behavior, however, may lead to children becoming unruly. Therefore, in the difficult situation of balancing right and wrong, if someone is willing to \u201coffer help and guidance,\u201d parents should be grateful. The following are \u201cimportant figures.\u201d<\/p>

Teachers
Teachers are among the people who spend the most time with children. We would prefer teachers to directly point out the rights and wrongs to children during their daily interactions. This direct message can effectively \u201csink in\u201d for the children. Sometimes, facing negative criticism, children will naturally feel unhappy, but it helps them understand the boundaries. Therefore, parents should appreciate the strict guidance of teachers and avoid casually complaining about their efforts.<\/p>

Elders
Many elders may be very strict with their own children but tend to be much more lenient with their grandchildren, sometimes even more so than the children\u2019s parents. However, the status and life experience of elders are actually superior to anyone else\u2019s. Therefore, their \u201cone word of praise\u201d can be more effective than others\u2019 advice. The question is whether they are willing to play the role of the bad guy. If they are, parents should be grateful for their assistance.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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Medical Personnel
Medical personnel have always been relatively respected. However, children often have an aversion to medical procedures. Therefore, during consultations and treatments, children\u2019s reactions often present a good teaching opportunity. If medical personnel (including doctors and nurses) are willing to provide guidance when children exhibit uncooperative behavior, the children will likely understand better. Although they may not correct their behavior immediately, it will certainly help in their life learning process.<\/p>

Passersby
Sometimes, unrelated bystanders can immediately point out inappropriate behavior in children, which can have a startlingly effective impact. For the parents present, this might be a bit embarrassing, but thinking it through, it is beneficial for the child\u2019s behavior.<\/p>

Children in their growth and learning phase need proper guidance, especially when their behavior deviates. Therefore, if parents are unwilling to play the \u201cbad guy,\u201d we should be grateful and appreciative if others are willing to speak up and correct the child.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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